For The Sake of Love 1…

For The Sake of Love…

First, tell me,  …. What would you do for love? What can you allow for love sake? To what length/extent would you cause damage in the name of loving? What sacrifices can you make to justify love/ loving? What are even the signs you see to really justify the love does exist?

Love is a deep, irresistible feeling of a radiating joy through affection. Yes, its as simple as that for me #smiles. Love involves sacrifices and a lot of it at that. Love requires total devotion and commitments of all sorts and in all areas/aspects but in good ways for it to indeed be successful, or should I put it as for it to be actualized. It takes lengths and depths to fulfill love course. It takes the mind and heart working in strength to bring love to life but we must also realize that as much strength (energy) as can be needed, stress ain’t included in showing love. Here I’d like to employ the use of a dictionary meaning to explain just how strength differs from Stress as much as they might seem synonymous.

—–> Strength is an input of energy to get work done, mostly positively, It is a state of being mentally strong. While, Stress is exhausting energy, pressure in getting a work done, mostly emotionally draining.

In the context of love now, Strength is your totality, your very being of existence, your commitment to achieving sensory openness of my partner, the extent to which you are willing to go/ that you would go to express love and to bring love to action, the extent of your loving somebody and also your Passion to loving, while Stress is emotional pressure exerted, distress, sensory overload.

You don’t out of love put your own emotions to jeopardy. You don’t in the name or course of love cause harm of whatever kind to yourself. No, you are special. You are your own person. You are love itself as God is love and you, his image. Love exists because of You. You should be in charge of love and not the other way…You rule it!

Like the saying, ‘Love don’t cost a thing’ may slightly apply but maybe in a little different light in the sense that… while you have to make sacrifices to the one you claim to love or make evident the presence of the love you say you feel, you still shouldn’t go through hell proving it. While indeed the love may be present in whatever the situation at hand, it shows its not real or true and not worth it when it takes too much from you be it financially, emotionally, health-wise or becomes a burden and draws much more heartache than necessary. As much as Love takes perseverance and patient, it still wouldn’t be hell living through or in it. Love is with genuine affection, with all understanding, loving oneself in loving somebody else and that shouldn’t only be to the one you are dating. Love is to be expressed to all humanity. Everyone deserves love. Everyone should get it. It is deserving and pleasing and pleasant to His sight.

Hey there, those are my thoughts and how I relate them to the initial listed questions. Would really love to hear your own views and share your ideas of what Love should cost, this writeup will be in editions and so I’m looking forward to your comments…. Thank You!

From A Sweet Heart.